Messy Mom

Habit Of Eating Slate Pencil 📝 I know the title sounds so immature but many people loves to eat slate pencil including me I know that how harmful is it but still I don't have any control on it. 😌 Lots of time I tried to give up my habit but I always failed. Many people are of the view that craving of eating slate pencil happens at the time of pregnancy but it's not always right. 😋 My mother always scream on me because of my habit of eating slate pencil but after marriage the fear of mom is also gone and I continue eating it. After some time I thought that the calcium is lacking in my body and then I started taking calcium pills but they also did not work. 🧐 Time passes and then I made 2 new friends  . One day we had gone for shopping suddenly a stationery shop came one of my friend told, "just be here I have to purchase something" and she go to the shop when she came we asked her what did she purchased she told that she is habitual of eating slate pencil and

Fight for T. V Remote⌨ How many of us had not done fight for T. V remote with our siblings in our childhood 😉. I think that there is very less percentage of this kind of sage people because many of us had done it😝 .  ‌If you had siblings, just remember after coming from school we all just started searching remote and who find the remote first that just behaves like the owner of the T.V😇 as everyone wants to watch their favourite channel .Hiding remote, snatching remote from one another was common activity done by us  👻 Sometimes some good moments are also there were we did not fight for remote and enjoy. Like I am not a cricket lover 🏏but I enjoyed watching 2011 World Cup finals in which India won🏆 and one more common serial was "Small Wonder" Which is watched by all without fighting👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Time changes and all our siblings were Separated from each other. Now we have T. V remote, we have time  and lots of channels also. In short, we have full right on television wit

Importance of Copper Bottle We all listen about the importance of copper and how beneficial the water  kept in copper bottle is very well known to us. It helps in improvement of digestion , lose weight and slow down aging etc. 👬 As me and my husband both are very aware about the importance of copper we decided to use copper bottle only for drinking water. We purchase 2 bottles of copper and then start using them. And my duty is to fill both bottles again n again when they became empty. 🍶 In the beginning everything was fine but later on or I can say after becoming mom 🤰 I became busy and then I stop filling water in it I told my husband that you just fill your bottle but he had not filled it and stop using it. I thought may be he is not liking it so he also stop using it. I also did not talk much about it as I was busy with my daughter. 🙅 As my daughter grown up I plan to focus on my health again 🏃‍♀️and I thought to use copper bottle I cleaned it and filled water in it but next d

What is Orkut I think many people of mid age group knows about Orkut and today's generation don't hear about it also🤔   Orkut was a  first famous social networking website owned and operated by Google. The service was designed to help users meet new and old friends just like Facebook. But as the time passes Facebook succeeded and Orkut failed.😒 Learn to Chat I was 17 when I started using Orkut and really it was too funny that your all messages ( we use to call them scraps) which you send and which you received are read by anyone 😁😄 . I feel very happy when I use to chat on Orkut actually I learnt chatting from Orkut only.😇 On Orkut we also use to write Testimonials for our special friends also but frankly speaking in my case  90% peoples are strangers only 😜because I use to accept requests from everybody as I was not mature enough to understand what is right and what is wrong 😝 Time passes and suddenly Facebook enters in my life till that time I had done masters in s

MY Camera 📷 I think Today's generation will not understand the craze and passion of some particular things which we had in our time . Of course I am not talking about 80's😁 so don't guess my age on the basis of this statement .But yes in my teenage days there are many things about which I was very passionate one of them was my cyber shot camera.  CYBER SHOT 📷 Cyber shot camera was first very expensive gift given by my father it was of sony I still remember I use to take lots of pictures and made videos daily with it because before that we had simple Kodak camera in which we are not free enough to take pictures as we have to fill roll in it again and again.  I take pictures mostly daily even I carry it when I use to hang out with my friends 👭👬👫 . I thought what's better than this no tension of rolls, negatives wow 🤩 . We only have to charge it that's it.  But later on time changes , within 2 or 3 years only that cyber shot camera is replaced by my phone. I sto

CONCEPT OF DEMAND Demand is the most common word  in every house some of us are happy 😄with this word while some are fed up of it.😏 I always demand what I want .Before marriage it was my father who fulfills my demand  and after marriage it is my loving husband. 🤩 My father was habitual of my demands and he knows that what I am demanding is necessary and not the wastage of money but my hubby won't understand this as he don't have any real sis he is not able to understand what girl needs. According to him all cosmetic products, going for outing are just wastage of money and nothing else. 😶 SOLUTION ADOPTED FOR FULFILMENT OF DEMAND Many times we had argument related to demand and every time he won by giving me solid reply and then I quit the argument as I don't want to do big fight on such silly things🤭 Then one day I decided something and try to stick on that thing. I decided that I will never do any kind of demand now neither the demand of cosmetic products and dresses

Just remember our summer days especially when we all were in school. How eagerly we use to wait for our summer vacation. How many plans we use to made in those days especially for summer. We also plan to meet our grandparents, cousins n all and want to do full time enjoyment with them.  After some years or I can say after our school ended our priorities were changed  we still wait for summer vacation but this time we plan to go for outing on some hill station and that also not with our family that is with our friends group.  Again some years  passed and all our friends were settled with their family we also had our family. Priorities are totally changed now our first priority is our own family , but now our position has changed we became "head of the family" n our kids are on that primary stage in which they plan to meet their grandparents n cousins eagerly . But in this summer of 2020 that is also not possible because of Corona Virus .  Just want to say time never stops for

Whether it is summer or winter, tea is the common drink in our houses. Most of us including me can't began their day without having a hot cup of tea in the morning.  Before marriage I was habitual of having bed tea but after marriage I made someone else habitual of bed tea I hope you all understand to whom I refer 🤩 But now this "tea" seems me as my biggest enemy. Because from morning onwards till night I prepare tea about 10 to 15times. I think this is the biggest effect of lockdown on me. 😒 One day my loving hubby  just switch off his laptop gives me the order of tea I got frustrated so I just shout why me only , why don't you only prepare tea for yourself. My husband told me "just relax I will prepare tea not only for me but  for you also."  I feel so happy and then 2 cups of tea are presented in front of me.  Tea was nice I enjoyed it a lot with my partner a lovely moment for me. 🥰🥰🤗 Then I moved to my kitchen n suddenly I became Shocked by looking

 I know many of us like Chocolates a lot and especially girls they just love Chocolates.  All ladies just remember your college time when any guy wants to impress you , they have very good option if the Chocolates are available in your college canteen ,the guy just bought chocolates for you and I understand your angry reactions melt like butter😃 Time passes and you forget all these things Now chocolates are no more your favourite.  It have many reasons that are divided into 2 parts first part is 'after marriage' and second part is when 'you became Mom'.  Let's discuss about first part, that is after marriage Either do arrange marriage or love marriage no one will try to pamper you or impress you by giving chocolates daily 😌 Either we are working or non working after marriage we became very busy in our routein life in which  we may forget our joy of happiness🙃 Now let's discuss about second section that is after becoming Mom Don't know about other c

In summer season the sun's rays are almost vertical that's why it causes hot weather conditions.  The benefit of winter is that we have to put woolen clothes which costs nothing and in summer we have to wear light clothes as well as we always switch on our fans, cooler's, AC's. Which doubles our electricity bill. But it is a need.  It was a month of may 2019 . My daughters vacations are started she watch cartoons continuously on television . Most of the time our AC is ON as it was really very hot weather In the end of the month  a very high amount electricity bill came🧐 ( it was as expected by me but not by my husband) then discussion starts and the following questions asked by my husband : - 1. What is the need to switch on AC all the time? 🤔      I replied not all the time its in afternoon and in night.  2. Then you have to keep it ON at night only no need to use it in noon.     I told but it's very hot in noon.  3. No more questions you have to adjust anyhow  

Home cleaning is fundamental since it keeps the things and surroundings of house perfect. It is essential part of healthy living .          Home cleaning are of many types one is main cleaning that  we do daily, in which we throw all regular garbage in dustbin. Another type of cleaning is that in which we clean our wardrobes, cupboards etc which we do in 6 month or in 1 year 😉. So here we discuss about second type of cleaning 😃 that is cleaning of wardrobe, cupboards., cabinets and almirah etc. .. . So, on Saturday I take initiative to clean all the cabinets and cupboards of my house and decided to donate all the old clothes to my maid which we don't wear( as they are of no more of our fitting now🤣🤣) and if she also refused to take then I will throw them out because in our big city it is very difficult to manage stuff, as our flat is not big as our city 😌.  So I started my mission cleaning I had done the cleaning of my cupboard, my daughters cupboard now it's time to clean

Fish oil considers as one of the best source of Omega 3 which is very important for our health. But for vegetarians intake of pure Fish Or fish oil is not possible so, fish oil capsule is good and possible option for them .  I want to give my daughter fish oil capsules daily but she is not at all ready to take it . My bottle of capsules becoming old day by day but what should I do I am not able to understand. As I don't want to throw the bottle of capsule also because I want to recover my money 🤣🤣. Than I decided to consume capsules and then I stop forcing my daughter to take it. But I take in her presence only hoping that by looking to me someday she will tell me that I also want to eat mumma.  Then one day (last to last week) she saw me combing my hairs and then she asked me I also want long hairs like you, how can I get long hairs like you( My hairs are not that long but as compare to her yes 😁😄) . Suddenly an idea came in my mind and I told her that I daily take fish oil ca

I know Yoga is one of the best thing which brings physical and mental disciplines together to achieve a Peaceful body and mind.  But being a lazy soul I never take it seriously. Though I met many people who explained me the benefits of Yoga and really those benefits are visible also. But morning sleep is my best friend and I don't want to do any type of compromise in that so I always stay away from it. 😉 Now a days suddenly I saw some changes in me like my waist become broad my hands n legs gains mass in short I start looking somewhat fatty😝 and it's obvious also as there is no workout, no physical activity n all so I decided to do Yoga finally, but how to start it what is the first step of it I am not able to understand anything finally my YouTube  help me and I start watching videos.  While watching videos I decided to start with Suryanamaskaar as it seems quite easy also. So finally I get up early in the morning and start doing Suryanamaskaar ( it is not that easy as it se

As there is lockdown period going on, many people are connected through cell phones only as they are not able to meet. Today my very good friend called me and talked to me for about one n a half hour . I thought we talked after after 2 , 3 months she will talk about different topics related to family, movies and office but her only topic in this one n a half hour is Corona n her son's education.  For Corona it's ok but her son who is only 4 years old what to worry about his education , according to me it's time to give freedom to them to do whatever they want to do just do it because this time will not come in their life again . My friend told me that she try to teach at least one hour daily to her son. But the kid of junior kg seriously need this much attention n pressure that he can't even enjoy his summer vacation.  If I am not wrong we all have to develop creativity in our child's mind in this age not study pressure or burden. Let them enjoy in this age b

My daughter always complaints that whenever she demands for Pasta I always cook 'ready to eat' Pasta for her on the other hand her best friend mom cook proper 'white sauce pasta' which taste delicious so finally in this lockdown time I decided to learn white sauce pasta for her and all credit of it goes to only n only YouTube 😃 So I arrange all the ingredients of white sauce pasta and give my 100 percent to cook as delicious as her friends mom because like every typical mom I  want my daughter likes the food of her mom's hand only and wherever she goes she remember her mom for her delicious food 😇 When my pasta is ready I told her to eat as I was eagerly waiting for her comment but after eating half of the plate she gives no reply I thought that its not working may be I have to put more efforts and then I taste it but I liked my pasta a lot  Then I asked my daughter( who already finished 1 plate and going to take more pasta), do you like it or not ? And she t

Summer is known for two things in India that is for Vacations and for Mangoes. Vacation of kids is started from March only instead of may and now let's discuss about the king of fruits Mango🥭🥭 In 2020 because of Corona virus we hardly manage  to buy grocery and other basic things from market so how can we buy mangoes as they are invisible from market.  We (me and my husband) decided to forget about mangoes this year but our loving, stubborn daughter want mangoes at any cost so what is the solution for it .  One day I received a message that there is a person in our society who is selling Alphonso mangoes of his farm, I just called him and give him a order of 5 dozen thinking to give surprise to my daughter and my husband also  I am feeling very happy about the thing which I had done.Then I received the mangoes and I arrange them in proper and decorative way in a plate and then I show it to my daughter and my hubby. My daughter feels very happy and she continuously telling me mumm